The Strength of One - Navigating the Joys & Challenges of Single Parenting
- Aren Fitzpatrick, LMHCA

- Oct 30
- 2 min read

Single parenting is a journey that which asks more of you than most people will ever fully understand.
It’s waking up each day knowing the weight of every decision rests on your shoulders—and still choosing love, resilience, and hope for your child. It’s holding everything together even when you’re stretched thin, and somehow finding room for laughter, comfort, and connection.
There is a depth of strength in single parents that often goes unnoticed.
Beneath that strength, there are moments of loneliness, exhaustion, and worry which deserve space and compassion too.
The Beauty You Create Every Day
Single parenting has a kind of sweetness which cannot be found anywhere else.
There’s a closeness, a bond built through shared routines, private jokes, and small victories that feel like magic.
The love you give—undivided, intentional, and steady—becomes the foundation your child stands on. Even when life feels chaotic or unstructured, your presence becomes home.
This connection doesn’t happen because everything is perfect; it grows because you keep showing up and doing your best.
The Challenges that Don’t Get Talked About
Even the strongest single parent feels the strain: the emotional load, financial pressure, constant multitasking—none of it is simple.
The world often expects single parents to carry all of it quietly.
You might feel the:
- exhaustion of doing the roles of two people
- loneliness of having no one to debrief with after a long day
- worry of making the correct decisions alone
- guilt of not being able to give your child everything you wish you could
- uncertainty of who supports you while you support your child
These moments are just part of the journey.
Giving Yourself Permission to Be Enough
Single parents often hold themselves to impossibly high standards—trying to be fully present, fully patient, and fully strong, every moment of every day.
Balance doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from compassion.
Small moments of self-care, rest, self-kindness, and giving yourself grace helps you reclaim your sense of self. Allowing yourself to be less than perfect gives your child permission to be imperfect too.
Your child needs you—steady, loving, and real.
Counseling - Helping You not Walk Alone
Counseling offers a space for single parents to finally exhale. It’s a place to sort through overwhelmed feelings, rebuild confidence, and understand the emotional patterns which shape your daily life. Through counseling, you can explore what balance looks like for you, learn tools to manage anxiety and stress, and reconnect with your own identity beyond the title of parent.
Counseling is a chance to strengthen your relationship with yourself—so you can continue showing up with clarity, calm, and the compassion you already give so generously to your child.
You deserve support, rest and self-care, and to feel steady in your path. Every moment you are present with your child is one step farther into the lifelong connection you are building and the celebration of love you are creating together—one courageous, loving day at a time.

