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Why Do I Feel Most Anxious in the Morning?
Waking up is supposed to feel peaceful and restful, or so we may think. But for those who suffer from anxiety, mornings can be especially difficult. All too often, a surge of anxious feelings overwhelms us upon opening our eyes. You may wonder why your anxiety seems to peak first thing in the morning. You are not alone. Let's explore why this happens. Cortisol Awakening Response When you wake up, your body releases a surge of cortisol, the “get up and go” hormone that helps

Aren Fitzpatrick, LMHCA


What Is This Haunting Fear? How Past Trauma Causes Anxiety
Anxiety may feel like a shadow following you wherever you go, causing you to be nervous and afraid without even knowing why. Trauma can be like a ghost of our past, attached to us and lingering in the subconscious. We may not realize the affect our past trauma has on our daily lives, creating vague to overwhelming feelings of fear and a sense of emending doom. Anxious feelings often seem to come out of nowhere — a sudden sense of worry, tension, and dread. For many people,

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Is Relaxing Even Possible? Techniques for Calming Anxious Distress
For those who live with chronic tension and anxiety, relaxation may seem impossible. The mind races, the body hums with unease, and relaxing becomes something you can’t quite access—like a language you’ve forgotten how to speak. Yet, calming anxious distress isn’t about forcing stillness. It’s about gently guiding your mind back toward safety and ease. Understanding Why Relaxing Feels So Hard Anxiety creates a sense of urgency that keeps you alert and on edge. When the fe

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Am I the Only One Like This? Managing Social Anxiety
Social anxiety has a way of convincing you that you’re the only one who feels like this—that everyone else seems to know some unspoken rulebook about how to exist around other people. You may be nervous to leave your home, apprehensive about seeing your friends, terrified about meeting new people. You might find yourself rehearsing conversations in your head, overthinking every glance, and worrying that you said the wrong thing hours after you’ve already gone home. It can f

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For What I Am; Is What to Create: The Path of Healing & Empowerment
There are moments in life when you feel the quiet pull toward something more—to who you truly are beneath the fear, the pressure, and the history that shaped you. Healing begins when you start listening to that inner pull, the one which whispers that you were made for more than survival. It reminds you that the life you want isn’t something to chase; it’s something to create from within. Listening to the Self You’ve Silenced Self-empowerment often begins with a deeper und

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Anxiety & Sleep Disturbances - Will This Exhaustion Ever End?
When anxiety and sleep disturbances intertwine, nights can feel endless… ...thoughts circle back on themselves, worries replay, the quiet of the night amplifies everything left unresolved from the day. This feeling is often described as tired but wired—unable to rest even when you desperately want to. The struggle to sleep and stay asleep can feel isolating, but it’s a common experience for those living with persistent anxiety and chronic worry. Common Types of Sleep Di

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Silencing Negative Self-Talk: Learning to Speak to Yourself with Kindness
Negative self-talk—the quiet stream of criticism, doubt, and comparison—can run through our minds so constantly that it starts to sound normal. Over time, those words begin to shape how we see ourselves and what we believe we deserve. How Negative Self-Talk Begins Negative self-talk often grows out of unrealistic expectations, comparison, or the pressure to always get things right. This can stem from years of abuse and being spoke to harshly, either in childhood or adulth

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The Patterns We Don’t See: How Our Thoughts and Behaviors Quietly Shape Our Lives
You may not realize how your thought and behavior patterns shape your life until you start noticing how they often repeat—the same worries, the same reactions, the same outcomes. Life tends to move in cycles, guided by the habits and beliefs that run quietly beneath awareness. When those patterns are shaped by self-doubt, fear, and anxiety, they can quietly influence decisions, limit growth, and create stress that feels constant but hard to explain. Most people don’t notice

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Always Afraid Something Bad will Happen? - What is Hypervigilance and How it Controls your Life
You might not realize it at first. Maybe you’re always scanning for signs something’s wrong — checking your phone, watching for a tone shift in someone’s voice, noticing every small sound or movement around you. It feels like you’re fully on, constantly aware, consistently ready for danger. This constant state of alertness is called hypervigilance —a form of anxiety where your mind stays locked in watchfulness, even when there’s no immediate threat. It can make it hard to r

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Anxiety at Work - How Long Can I Last?
Work is supposed to be a place where you can focus, contribute, and find some sense of stability. But when anxiety follows you into the workplace, even simple tasks can feel like mountains. You might sit at your desk wondering, “How long can I keep this up?” “How long until someone notices I’m struggling?” “When will I finally break?” When anxiety mixes with the pressure to perform, it can turn the workday into a quiet, ongoing battle—one carried behind forced smiles, polite

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When Anxiety Attacks – Will I Ever Find the Road to Healing?
Anxiety (panic) attacks can feel as though the world suddenly tilts—your thoughts, your breath, and your sense of control slip away all at once. You may seem completely fine on the outside, while on the inside everything feels overwhelming and unsteady. It’s a moment when fear seems louder than reason and your mind races with questions you cannot answer quickly enough. If you constantly think, “Is this ever going to stop?” or “Why does this keep happening?”—you’re not alone

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